Anira Tamayo Avila

it is horrible to sleep with the shock of waking up in the morning and being taken out of your rent because you do not have money to pay for more days and without knowing where to fuck you have to pack your bags and go with a baby in your arms and that Leasing people does not interest you ... and finally when you find a place to stay for the night you wake up in the middle of the night with the shock of ... where will I go tomorrow? ... or ... if my son Do you feel hungry to buy your milk and other supplements? and the worst thing is that every baby consultation should be paid and not be able to work or anything because of the lack of documentation ... the truth is that I do not know what to do ... that is why I beg you all those who have possibilities to give their contribution and donate what they can that will be grateful from the heart ... I beg it ... I know we are not the only ones with difficult situations but unfortunately we only have this option to ask for emergency help ... thank you for taking your time and read my words ... of heart Anyra and her baby Brayan... My story begins on a trip I made to Russia where I would be sent to my fiance ... her mother, my future mother-in-law, would go to visit Ukraine for those days and my fiancé decided to make a visa for me so that I could meet her mother and experience her blessing for marriage ... they gave me a visa for a month ... we decided to travel in a mini bus a long journey of many hours and we were 5 passengers plus the equipage ... in the border of Russia with ukraine we were stopped by officers Ukranian emigration to verify our documents .. at the end of my fiance I stopped to smoke a cigarette with one of the passengers who was Ukrainian and they spent some time talking my husband had his wallet in the front pocket of then the trip after a while volvimoa to be stopped by other soldiers who asked for my passport to my fiancé and to me since we were the only strangers in the mini bus ... my fiancé took out my passport and the one from the one in his wallet and put the wallet inside his briefcase and talk to the officer after the withdrawal we continued our trip where we passed to the Ukrainian border the driver asked us all to get off the bus and carry our IDs which my commitment brought in your pocket ... officer asked him to show his other documents and when he went to the bus he did not find his wallet anywhere had someone taken it from inside the briefcase ... we were at that moment in serious trouble no matter how much we looked for we did not find it was lost with 6 thousand american dollars and 2500 rubles that was dienro that we changed in russia ... if more than doing only we had our cell phones and to continue our journey my commitment pledged his cell phone to the driver in 1000 gym the Ukrainian currency to pay a bus until the terminal of Odesa ... without almost money I call a childhood friend to pick us up because we did not have more budget because we only had to pay for transportation to the terminal and not even to buy water to drink since it was very hot and it was full summer ... his friend came and made us the favor of staying at home that night but the next morning he said goodbye and told us that we should leave because he would bring other friends to his house ... we went to his only uncle's house and we asked him and his wife to let us stay at his house until we saw what to do with our situation ... for more solids I started to feel very bad with dizziness and beautiful I had not seen my monthly period that month and I felt a little distressed since 9 months ago I had lost a pregnancy of almost 3 months ... I took the test and tested positive ... no doubt I was pregnant again ... he told me that what I decided he was defending him and that if I decided not to have him he would help me in whatever I needed ... but I am a religious and it would never hurt a creature sent by God ... We decided to get married civilly ... I spent some time and I began to have abdominal pain s ... we went to the urgent doctor there they gave me a bruise and I could not travel I had to stay hospitalized so that I would not lose my baby and I would not take any risks with my life ... her mother helped us to pay the hospital expenses which They were not economical at all because the medicines were very expensive and each test had to be paid separately at once ... after improving a little bit with serums and many pills and injections I went back to their uncle's house ... I had to stay in bed of absolute rest but that bothered his uncle and he asked him to look for a place to rent because he wanted privacy ... with so many problems and without possibilities we were blinded if saver for where to fuck or what to do ... well his mother could only help us pay the ticket back home which was that I returned to Cuba and he continued to canada ... after so many years I improved a bit of my bruise and the doctor told me that I could fly and just when we we made the idea and We bought the ticket again and before flying we wanted to be sure that everything was fine with me and the baby but it turns out that when I had the ultrasound I had the complete placenta previa and the doctor denied me the flight again because that could cause a placenta detachment and many other problems derived ... I was snowing of absolute rest for another long time ... my next ultrasound showed that my placenta had moved to its place but there was another inconvenience my baby had the umbilical cord with a circular around the neck another inconvenience for our flight ... I already had 37-38 weeks and the baby surpassed his cord I can get it out of his neck but it turns out that he had very little amniotic fluid but that very low in the limit ... I was hospitalized urgently again and the doctors disagreed if they gave me a cesarean or waited to see if my liquid rose in two days, my liquid had gone up one point after After almost two weeks the doctor let me return to the house to do my treatment and rest more comfortable but the liquid was kept low ... my date of birth was for day 10 and the date was passed and my baby ahun I was not born afraid that something would happen to my husband and I asked him to tell the doctor to apply the cesarean but the doctor told him to wait a day and if he does not come of his own accord then we will go to the cesarean section ... day 25 in the afternoon they began a few headaches that became terrible and a lot of bleeding. I went fast to the hospital and they put me in the zalon in preparation for the birth process ... the hours ran and my horrible pains and my bleeding did not stop .. I asked my husband to give me the epidural and at 20 minutes later at 11:45 p.m., my baby was born ... I was hospitalized for a week because I had problems with a blood substance but the best thing was that my baby is perfect ... it was a very hard winter and spend a lot of work ... to have my baby 3 weeks we left for the capital of ukraine to do the roles of my baby and mine but the solpresa was the price of the rents were huge because it was imvierno and people were aprevechava of the need of us ... we waited for the answer of my travel documents to canada and I was denied ... then we survived with the money of the taxes of my husband but he did not have anymore money to do them again and we were stranded without knowing that make change to a super small department without hot water or conditions we had to bathe with cold water in the middle of winter ... we resented the sad news that my mother-in-law had had a stroke and was hospitalized and that we would not receive more of their help given their health conditions ... we were forced to sell our things to our phones because my husband had negotiated a camera for a cell phone and some money to pay for some The more income and milk and other supplies for the baby ... my husband was unable to travel because I do not speak or pisca Ukrainian or Russian ... and had a baby that if something happened I would not know explain to the doctors ... then the treatment of a thousand ways to get work and denied it for not having a temporary residence in ukraine ... we were in a hole with no way out because my husband's mother was 87 years old and she helped us with the money of his pension, which was impossible due to his state of health she had to pay for medicines and other things ... she gathered as much as she could to pay us the return ticket but she has another son who also has health problems which has gone through 3 strokes and does not work with a government pension but pays a rent a little expensive and it does not take much and when he has needs he worries his mother to give him money and when finally the ticket had been paid by his mother using his card and when we waited for the arrival of the day of the flight it would be in some months because the prices would be lower he canceled the ticket and asked for the money back which he consumed leaving us with nothing ... now we are waiting for a charitable soul to help us as the last day we have rent is Monday and on Tuesday morning we do not know where we will end up ... I thank you for reading my story and for the donation you can make ... with love Anyra and your baby Brayan.